Getting your partner in the mood

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How to get your partner in the mood

If your sex life has been off or your partner has not been in the mood lately and you’re looking for some tips you’re in the right place.

One of the first tips is to have fun together. One of the best things about sex is that it can be really fun. Try doing things that encourage smiling and laughing before sex. A sense of humor a willingness to try something different can really help set the mood.

Avoid self-centered approaches a partner Who approaches their lover with the sense that they are entitled or focused on their needs to often is not going to be getting the kind of great sex that are more loving and giving partner is going to get.

Romantic touches providing an atmosphere of appreciation for your lover is a great way to get them in the mood. After a hard day of work there is nothing nicer than having a sitter for the kids, a hot bubble bath with a glass of their favorite beverage waiting. Maybe add some massage or dinner and have some nice music in the background etc.

Don’t forget their whole body needs love often there is a sense of sex equaling genital contact right away. Start with the simply idea that pleasure is the goal. Playing with their hair by simply twisting and softly pulling back on it to massage their feet are great examples.

They are not an object they are a person, terminology today really makes a statement to the continuation of people being objects when it comes to sex. Unfortunately while this is used to be mainly directed more toward women it is now being directed to men quite often as well. When are you are referring to a man or a woman take note about how you describe your sexual experiences. If you catch yourself separating the intimacy you share with your partner then perhaps you are showing your partner that they are not respected by you.

Date each other like you did when you first met and  schedule weeks in advance to plan quality time together.

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